The Money Bond That Changes Everything

Recently, I saw a video clip of an interview with Lewis Howes in which he asks, "If Money were a person, how would you treat this person?"

Since I love this question, I wanted to take it to a whole new level.

How about you look in the mirror, and you see your friend? Your friend's name is Money. How do you treat your friend? Imagine looking in the mirror, and instead of just your reflection, you see a friend. A friend who has been with you your entire life—sometimes supporting you, sometimes stressing you out, sometimes feeling distant or out of reach. This friend’s name? Money.

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Alright, back to your reflection. So, instead of just your reflection, you see a friend. A friend who has been with you your entire life—sometimes supporting you, sometimes stressing you out, sometimes feeling distant or out of reach. This friend’s name? Money.

Now, take a moment. How do you treat this friend?

Now, with Money...

You can save Money.

You can invest Money.

You can grow Money.

You can make Money.

You can stow away Money.

You can hold onto Money.

You can throw away Money.

You can give away Money. You can ignore Money.

You can leverage Money.

Coming back to your friend, what do you choose to do with this friend, Money?

Your relationship with Money is just like any other relationship in your life.

If you neglect it, misunderstand it, or even resent it, it reflects back at you in ways you may not expect.

But if you nurture it, respect it, and build a healthy partnership with it, it can bring you freedom—not just financial freedom, but freedom in your decisions, your time, and your ability to show up fully in your work and life.

Let’s be honest.

Many of us grew up with mixed messages about Money.

Some of us were taught to fear it.

Some were told to chase it at all costs.

Some were made to believe that talking about Money was wrong or shameful.

But just like any friend, Money thrives in an environment of clarity and respect.

So I ask you: What kind of friend are YOU to Money?

Do you care for it and help it grow?

Do you push it away, telling yourself it’s not important?

Do you rely on it without truly understanding it?

Or do you work with it, treating it as a partner in your journey toward freedom?

I’ve seen firsthand how transforming your mindset around Money changes everything.

One of my clients used to feel guilty about making Money, believing that financial success meant sacrificing integrity.

However, when she redefined her relationship with Money—seeing it as a tool to create more opportunities for herself and others—she unlocked a whole new level of freedom in her work and life.

Money isn’t just numbers in a bank account. It’s an extension of how you value yourself, your time, and your impact on the world. When you align your financial decisions with your core values, Money becomes a source of stability, joy, and freedom rather than stress or uncertainty.

So, I’ll ask you again—how do you treat your friend, Money?

If this message is shifting your perspective on Money, imagine what else we can uncover together.

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If this article resonated with you, take a moment today to reflect on your money mindset. And if you’re ready to build a healthier, more empowering relationship with Money, let’s talk.

Thank you for being here.

Till next time…

Find your flow. Find your freedom.

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